EP136: Sometimes I Wonder If They Even Miss Me - something every estranged parent asks

In this episode, Kreed explores the question that every estranged parent asks: 'I wonder if they even miss me?' She discusses the complexities of the parent-child relationship and the reasons why adult children may not immediately reconcile with their parents. Kreed emphasizes the importance of understanding the emotions and experiences of both parents and adult children, as well as the need for healing and personal growth. She encourages parents to approach reconciliation with curiosity and patience, rather than trying to control or manipulate their children. Ultimately, Kreed reminds listeners that while their children may miss them, it is crucial to prioritize healthy and nurturing relationships.

Takeaways

Adult children do miss their parents, but they may not miss the constant chaos and people-pleasing that often accompanies the relationship.

Reconciliation requires understanding and addressing the pain and trust issues on both sides.

Parents need to do their own healing work and develop curiosity and patience to create healthy and sustainable relationships.

Approaching reconciliation with control, guilt-tripping, or manipulation will only hinder the process.

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