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Dec. 11, 2024

Who Can You Turn To? The Importance of Finding the Right Support During Estrangement

Estrangement from an adult child can feel like an emotional earthquake, shaking the very foundation of your identity and relationships. As a mom, you naturally seek comfort from those closest to you—your spouse, your family, or your best frien…

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Nov. 27, 2024

When Traditions No Longer Fit: Grieving the Loss

Thanksgiving is a holiday steeped in tradition. For many, it’s a time to gather with loved ones, share meals, and reflect on gratitude. But for families experiencing estrangement, the holidays can bring a mix of emotions: grief for what’…

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Nov. 20, 2024

Damn If I Do, Damn If I Don’t

Feeling like nothing you do is ever right in the eyes of your estranged adult child can be incredibly disheartening. Many estranged parents describe this as a “damned if I do, damned if I don’t” scenario. You try to show you care, …

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Nov. 13, 2024

Make It Make Sense

When an adult child becomes estranged, parents are often left wondering why they’ve been cast as the “villain” in their child’s story. It can be particularly painful for parents who feel they’ve sacrificed, given every …

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Oct. 30, 2024

Reflecting on Three Years of The Estranged Heart: Lessons Learned, Compassion, and Moving Forward

   It’s hard to believe that three years have passed since The Estranged Heart began its journey. What started as a podcast to support and connect those experiencing the pain of family estrangement has blossomed into a strong commun…

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Oct. 23, 2024

Pushing & Prodding Isn’t Helping: Why Reconciliation Requires Space and Patience

When you're estranged from your adult child, the desire to heal the relationship can feel all-consuming. You want answers, you want to make amends, and most of all, you want things to go back to the way they were. But the truth is, pushing and prodd…

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Oct. 16, 2024

What is She Doing Differently Than Me to Be Reconciled with Her Adult Daughter?

As a mother navigating the painful waters of estrangement from your adult child, you might find yourself comparing your situation to others, asking, What is she doing that I’m not? It’s natural to wonder why reconciliation seems to come …

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Oct. 3, 2024

I Would Have Been the Perfect Mother for Me, But Probably Not for Her

As parents, we often set out with the best of intentions. We make promises to ourselves, determined to give our children what we never had. We want to protect them from the hardships we faced, and we strive to create a life for them that’s bet…

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Sept. 29, 2024

Healing the Pain of Estrangement: Your Child’s Invitation

Estrangement between parents and their adult children is one of the most painful experiences a family can face. For parents, it can feel like an unbearable loss, leaving them with overwhelming emotions of confusion, rejection, and heartache. Often, …

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Sept. 25, 2024

Rebuilding Trust: A Guide for Estranged Parents and Adult Children

Rebuilding Trust: A Guide for Estranged Parents and Adult Children Trust is the foundation of every meaningful relationship. When it’s intact, trust allows us to feel safe, connected, and understood by those we care about most. But when trust…

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